Popular radio and television relationship counsellor, Reverend George Lutterodt, says there is a lot of bad sexual lifestyle in marriages now.
Mr Lutterodt in an interview with Rainbow Radio 87.5Fm said, the level of bad sexual intercourse encountered in marriages today is due to the lack of sex education.
Christians he noted are the majority of people suffering from bad sexual life in their marriages. The Church he added, lacks understanding of marriage and takes people through their own biblical understanding of marriage and that has affected a lot of marriages today.
‘’Marriage is not a Church affair, but a family affair,’’ he said. He was responding to an advocacy by a man of God that, would be couple should have sex before marriage.
Apostle Dr. Owusu Kwakye, who is the founder and General Overseer of Christ Powerful Church in Berekum in the Brong Ahafo Region, said the high rate of divorce that has rocked Christian marriages was due to the inability of either the man or woman to satisfy their partners in bed.
According to the Today’s Newspaper, the man of God said: “Having sex before marriage is no big deal but some pastors have made it sinful. I see all of them as hypocrites.’’
But responding to the colleague man of God, Counsellor Lutterodt, disagreed with him insisting, sex before marriage is not biblical.
He was however quick to add, the rate of divorce in Christian marriages could also be blamed on bad sexual life in marriages today. According to him, the mind-set of men and women in marriage varies and the man usually marry because of sex.
”Making of babies is not part of the reasons why men marry but women are the ones who are so keen with making babies in marriages.’’ He said, in the sexual psychology of a man, we know that no woman is the same when it comes to the act of sexual intercourse especially when it comes to the sexual reproductive organ, but in the sexual orientation of women, all men are the same.’’
‘’And so when a man meets a woman sexually, he knows that Adjoa and Veronica are different but the woman would want to experience the same sexual encounter he had with Kojo when she meets Kwame,’’ he added.